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Wednesday, October 22, 2025

Holding It Together -


All is well!

Yesterday was such an emotional roller coaster knowing my grown man-child was in the operating room to remove a large tumor from his brain as I was here holding down the fort - driving on a beautiful autumn morning over to the retreat where the Brown Bird Bee ladies were departing.

My wonderful second grown man child Jeff stayed with me all day.

It is at this stage of life where we appreciate who our grown children have become.

There were video calls and phone calls and text messages throughout the entire process, there surgery itself lasting about 4 hours.

The tearful call from Dave letting me know that he was out of surgery and in recovery before moving him to the ICU was filled with so much relief.

Then later that day, a phone call - me at first thinking it was Dave, but it was Jason himself - his voice raspy after recovering from anesthesia and intubation.  "It's me, mom."

So many tears, so much gratitude.

He will likely remain in ICU through today, and hopefully tomorrow will be moved to a rehab floor.


My view from here.

There are even fewer leaves on the trees this morning - I took this photo on Monday morning before a huge wind storm blew through...

I am finding rest for my soul in the beauty of nature and the turn of seasons.


Down the drive.

Jeff stayed the night with me so he could be on hand for anything that I needed.  And here I am thinking that I am still his mom and taking care of whatever HE needs.

It's a weird stage of life when we give over always being the caretaker and let the children take the reins, isn't it?


I mentioned that I've been in a cleaning frenzy since Saturday.

That also means the fridge and the freezer were hit, and it came in really handy for lats night's dinner.

It all started with a half-bag of white northern beans I found in the back of the cupboard.  "Are you too old to cook up soft?" I asked the beans before throwing them in the crockpot, covering them with boiling water and setting the pot on low to soak overnight.

By morning they WERE soft.  I have no idea how old those beans were and I admit to not always having good luck with dried beans.

So I dug through the freezer, finding half a bag of mixed veggies that were well on their way to frozen too long, and a freezer bag containing the remains of leftover pork tenderloin I had placed in there at some unknown date.

I added chopped onion, chopped celery, some chicken broth, a random can of enchilada sauce, some taco seasoning and let it simmer all day.

"Clean Out Soup"???  It was delicious for last night's dinner with Jeff and I have enough to freeze a couple of containers for the guys to have while I am with Jason.

It just goes to prove that when the going gets tough, the moms get cooking and cleaning.

I leave to go stay with Jason on November 2nd.  That means I've got more than a week to keep up the cleaning/organizing/re-nesting streak.

Oh, and the photo at the top?  Jeff and I watched a couple of movies last night and I started in on one side border that will complete the design at the quilt sides.

I'm saving the motifs for my travel out to Portland and the 2 weeks I'll be spending with Jason.


Finishing up stitching down the binding and hanging sleeve with Zoey snuggling close. She knows something is "different."  Two weeks for dad to be gone is a long time.


It's done. All done. As the autumn color leaves us - this one is done.


I love how this piece of toile picked up in Paris worked with this quilt.

The fabric was a bit heavier than traditional quilting cotton, but it works.  This fabric has just been waiting for the right job, and I'm glad it found a home here.

The last time I sat at a machine to sew was when I was putting the binding on Brookgreen.  My mind has just been other places.

Now that Jason is post surgery and we are looking forward to his healing, the machine may just begin to call me again.

I nearly have enough Four Patch Fun Leader & Ender blocks to start thinking about a layout. How is yours coming along?


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Quiltville Quote of the Day -

After all the worry, stress and emotional upheaval, to come out the other side is a wonderful feeling!

Son Jason still has a long road ahead, but I feel some therapeutic retail therapy coming on.
 
 I understand that Fiddlesticks quilt shop is less than a mile from his place!

I am breathing deeply - in with gratitude, and out with relief. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat.

The October Quiltvillians are on their way in today -

Life is good!

 

28 comments:

  1. Anonymous8:35 AM EDT

    I'm so glad your son's surgery was successful and that he is on the road to recovery. You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts. -Zermeena

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  2. Sally Borland8:39 AM EDT

    So glad to hear this good news, Bonnie! Family really is everything.
    Sally

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  3. Anonymous8:42 AM EDT

    I am so happy to hear that Jason's surgery went well. As the mom of a grown man child, I can only imagine what you were going through. Please know that I will keep Jason and all of you in my prayers.

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  4. It is a relief for us, your fellow quilters, to know Jason's surgery is behind him. And how wonderful your son, Jeff, came to your side for moral support. You are an inspiration. Keeping you all in my thoughts and sending wishes to Jason for his complete recovery.

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  5. Anonymous8:44 AM EDT

    I cried reading your good news about Jason. My 40 year old daughter went thru a medical nightmare 2 years ago and it really makes us parents feel our age! Glad he is doing so well!

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  6. Anonymous8:45 AM EDT

    So glad the surgery is over with. I know you can’t wait to wrap your arms around him. Continued prayers he heals quickly.

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  7. Anonymous8:46 AM EDT

    Hi Bonnie, so glad to hear that your son is on the mend. It's so hard as a parent to have your kids ill or hurt. I always wanted to take their pain and suffering on myself . I just have one question....are you taking a featherweight machine with you when you stay with your son while he recuperates? 😉 God bless and keep you all Bonnie in SE CT

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  8. Anonymous8:48 AM EDT

    Dear Bonnie and family just reading that Jason could speak with you after surgery brings happy tears. Will continue to keep you all in my thoughts❤️ Kathy

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  9. Anonymous8:50 AM EDT

    Wonderful news ! You had the best phone call a mother could get! Wishing Jason a speedy recovery 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

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  10. Ginny Clyne8:52 AM EDT

    Thank you, God, for this blessing of Jason's surgery and please keep Jason and his family in the palm of your hand while he recovers. Still wishing I could give you a lot of hugs and chocolates while you wait to go to see him.

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  11. Anonymous8:54 AM EDT

    Oh, Bonnie! Can I just tell you how glad I was to hear that your son called you after his surgery? I literally cried happy tears. What a glorious day, right? This will not stop all of us from praying for a wonderful recovery. I am taking your mantra from the end of today's blog post and using it myself. I love it. God Bless!!

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  12. Anonymous8:54 AM EDT

    Prayers answered. I found myself crying with relief with you. Pray his recovery goes well. Becky

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  13. Susan Strasser8:54 AM EDT

    So very, very glad to hear that son Jason is starting on his road to recovery today!

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  14. Such good news for you & your family. Sending more good thoughts your way as the healing begins 😘😘

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  15. Anonymous9:02 AM EDT

    What a relief and good news for Jason and his family. I know you will feel better when you have your arms around him. Prayers for a full recovery and peace of mind for you.

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  16. Kim Brandt9:05 AM EDT

    Thanks for letting us know :0) Prayers for all the Hunters!

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  17. Anonymous9:17 AM EDT

    I am so happy to hear the good news for you and your family. May his recovery be speedy. Sending more prayers and thoughts to you. 🥰

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  18. Anonymous9:20 AM EDT

    So happy that Jason's surgery went well. Sending virtual hugs to all of you from Maine. Can't wait for the Brookgreen pattern. Looks like fun.

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  19. Anonymous9:31 AM EDT

    "It is at this stage of life where we appreciate who our grown children have become." Thank you, Bonnie ~Dallas D

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  20. Fantastic Bonnie! I can't imagine the joy you felt when Jason called you yesterday! I'm so happy for you all. Kudos to Jeff for being there with you. Best wishes for Jason in his recovery, Jenny

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  21. Anonymous9:47 AM EDT

    Last year our daughters (from Portland!) took turns staying with us and helping out while my husband recovered from an infection in his leg which made it impossible for him to walk or drive. This year they did the same for me while I recovered from breast cancer surgery. Their help was above & beyond & we’re so grateful for their help. Nancy Borgeson, Grass Lake, MI

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  22. Jan Lewis9:53 AM EDT

    Such great news, Bonnie! Hugs from Georgia.

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  23. So glad to hear that the surgery was successful. Now comes the equally hard work of recovery. Blessings to all of you.

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  24. Anonymous10:01 AM EDT

    I was thinking about you and Jason all day yesterday. It brought tears to my eyes this morning to read that surgery went well and that he was able to call you. What a blessing. How very thoughtful of Jeff to be with you all day yesterday and through the night, another blessing. Fran in WA

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  25. Anonymous10:08 AM EDT

    I’m so glad surgery is behind him. To hear his voice. Amazing. 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗,Jackie

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  26. Anonymous10:39 AM EDT

    I've had the same experience with a man-child; also letting the same man child take care of me! Ellen T.

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  27. So grateful you weren't alone all day. Prayers answered. The leftover soup at my house was called refrigerator dinner. Have a good hump day.

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  28. Sally Warren10:46 AM EDT

    Whew. Great news about Jason’s surgery!! its amazing how quickly they move from surgery to rehabilitation! It’s all good. Any thoughts about taking a sewing machine with you? You already know there’s a quilt shop nearby. Or maybe one of your local fans have a machine you can borrow…..

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