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Wednesday, March 18, 2026

Well, Dang!


Have you ever spent weeks, months, years working on a project and then get to the point where you think you've made the wrong decision?

I pulled out my ever growing hexie top to see how the top border was going to look now that I've pieced enough of it and I'm not sure this is what I want?

Have I wasted hours and hours and hours?


I think it's one row too wide!

And yes, I could just trim off the excess because I'm planning on a straight binding anyway, but I'm just so bummed!


I had been piecing rows of 3 and off-setting them to match the contours of the quilt center. I think I should have been doing 3:2:3, knowing that the outside edge would be trimmed and then it would be more consistent with the side border that is already on. (see top photo.)

So from here I can simply do 3:2:2 and that will make the bottom border less piecing - but for this more than half of a border I've done too much????

This is what happens with design-as-you-go patchwork.

Or I could just leave it as is and continue with 3:3:3 and have the quilt top that much longer by an extra row.

But will it look weird?

Am I hyper-obsessing?


That and this door is going back -

We were supposed to install it today, but the door jamb is broken. They can't replace just that part, it comes as a whole so now we go into the waiting process again and it will be another couple of months before we actually can get a new back entry door installed.

I had a conversation (well, sort of) with Hubster Dave last night because I was feeling disappointed. He felt it was his fault (It's not! And I said so!) but I still feel it's okay to feel what you are feeling and we can't always dismiss our feelings for the comfort of others.

Things happen.  It's okay to feel disappointed without blaming anyone for any circumstance, and once you feel it you can then acknowledge your feelings, release them, and then move on. It's a process.  You can't skip the middle part

And so we wait. Again.


And busy ourselves with something creative at hand.  I'm getting close to having the last block quarters put together for the quilt center I have in mind.  I think I may have enough ideas for borders floating around.

But that also many be too much overkill, so we shall see!

The good news is - the Richmond Express ladies will be arriving this afternoon!

No new door to welcome them, but the temps are improving from yesterday's high of 27.  Let's hope that trend continues and we are done with the snow and ice. PLEASE!


Hazel can't wait to meet everyone!\


And if you haven't yet, please pop over to the Gift-Away post and get your entry in!

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Quiltville Quote of the Day -

This sounds just about right, except for that 8:00 p.m. cut off time.
 
I think we can do better than that, can't we?

Have a wonderful Wednesday, everyone!

 

24 comments:

  1. Anna Pedrotte8:56 AM EDT

    Good morning, Bonnie! I have never made a hexie quilt, but I agree that the border may be a bit too wide. I like your idea of doing 3:2:2 for the rest. You are an amazing designer. Keep creating your way! Thanks for all of your beautiful patterns, blogs and posts!

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  2. Anonymous9:06 AM EDT

    I think on your Hexie quilt do the bottom row just like the sides. Add what you have to the top, all 3 rows. It will be like a header on a letter. I admire all the hours of work you have put in on your quilt, it is amazing. I have dreams of doing this but I won't. I am 73 as of yesterday have way too much fabric and am trying to get as many quilts that I want to do done before I go to Fabric heaven MiChelle

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  3. Anonymous9:21 AM EDT

    Just my two cents on the hexie quilt. Leave the wide borders and bind it with a turquoise and I think it will look great! Lena Truitt

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  4. Anonymous9:37 AM EDT

    I like it without the wide border. But, I must tell you that I have a king size already hand quilted flower garden quilt that all it needs is the binding. But, what? I hate the idea of cutting off the hexies to make it a straight border. I've considered your idea of cutting off batting and turning the edges in, adding a new piece of fabric that would make the border straight, etc. I have been working on this quilt for about 15 years and it is time to finish it!!! Decisions, decisions. Diane

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  5. I think that the border that you have on your hexi quilt is a beautiful frame to the quilt.

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  6. Anonymous10:02 AM EDT

    get rid of the 3 rows (from what I see) and just do 1 then your straight line It looks like it is fighting the quilt simple is better ! just my thought !

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  7. Anonymous10:10 AM EDT

    I'm sorry for your disappointment. It's a hard pill to swallow at times. your hexie quilt is a design element not a total loss. It will looked planned being on the top only. Like you tell us If you can live with it leave it and move on. If not fix it. You could have some future quilter thinking why did she do that? Myself I think it works. What matters most is if you do.

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  8. I’ve learned the hard way that you have to do what makes you happy and satisfied with the quilt. Otherwise, every time you look at it, the disappointment and annoyance will rise up again and ruin your day! I made a huge error on a wedding quilt gift that I didn’t notice until I had quilted and bound it. It just screamed at me. My husband didn’t even see it until I pointed it out. I made a whole new quilt for the couple and will donate the other one. Moral of the story: do what you can live with and appreciate your work!

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  9. Anonymous11:15 AM EDT

    I LOVE your hexie quilt. Trim the overhang of the hexies and put a straight, narrow finishing border (turquoise, of course!) to frame the quilt and quilt it. You have a gorgeous quilt. The neutral frame is throwing you off, I think. I still would have done that, but having a straight border just finishes a masterpiece. The size is beautiful.

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  10. Oops! An extra row will be ok on top. Don't sweat it. Sorry about the door. You want it to be right, it's worth waiting for. Quilting with Friends again today. Hubby calls it my Retreat time.

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  11. Anonymous12:02 PM EDT

    My first thought was it reminded me of the little "petite fores" we used to make for special parties....your outside border of neutrals is the extra fluffy icing on top. I love it just the way you are doing it.

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  12. Oh, Bonnie, I'm disappointed too, I can't wait to see the new door. I love your wise words about how we can be disappointed, and acknowledge that feeling without having to create something or someone to blame. With your hexies, you've come this far and invested this much, it's worth it to get it how you like it. ☺️❤️

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  13. Anonymous1:54 PM EDT

    Maybe this is the real reason so many old quilts had a "side for the wall" and the side everyone could see! That was how some women solved the dilemma :) I have no suggestions!
    Bridget

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  14. Anonymous2:00 PM EDT

    I think it's too early to just give up. It's hard for me to tell with only that partial row. I'd like to see at least the bborder going around the corner. Maybe pictures could be used to audition it? Love the hexi's!

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  15. You are insightful and accurate in feeling disspointed and knowing that you don't have to blame anything/anyone, and yes, we just have to feel that way to move ahead. Stuffing the feelings is not healthy. For what it's worth, I agree that the hexie border is too wide. Glad you found out know and not once it was all stitched!!

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  16. 8pm sounds a little early lol

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  17. I haven't had any experiences like this, but there have been times where I piece something together and I didn't love it right away until I quilted it. Then it became my favorite! Hazel says to just look into her eyes and everything will be alright! HA! Hopefully things start warming up and you can go for walks again to help clear the mind. Until then, happy quilting and have fun welcoming the new group! :-)

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  18. If you will be cutting the hexies to create a border with an outer straight edge why don't you make the edging already stitched WIDER to accommodate both top and bottom borders when cut in half along the middle? Peggy Smith

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  19. I love the quilting schedule , I am retired and able to follow those hours some days! I like the borders on your hexie quilt just the way it is, you have put in so many hours on it and its beautiful!
    Cindy A

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  20. I may be way out of line, because I'm a newbie - but might it look nice to have a slightly darker contrasting row of hexies between the main body of the quilt and the section of edge you're holding betwixt finger and thumb in the photo above?

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  21. You've honed "the middle part", and I believe that's the part that goes unnoticed by the couples in too many failed marriages. Good for you both!

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  22. Personally I like the hexi quilt border. I know when I'm quilting my face is 8" away from the quilt and I'm constantly questioning if it's good enough to leave in or if I need to unstitch. Hazel is a gorgeous cat I wish I lived closer and could meet your wonderful furry family.

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  23. Connie H8:15 AM EDT

    It's a beautiful quilt! And I agree a wide border is not necessary. I would probably trim it down and then use what I trimmed off in another part of the border.

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  24. Anonymous9:06 AM EDT

    Gayle Kush here. Since you are going to use a regular binding, I think it would be fine to use what you have there and make the bottom border match the sides. No one will see the top once the bed is made and whoever you give this to is going to love and cherish it no matter what you do.

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