I took this photo 3 minutes ago. Three minutes before I sat down to start writing this post.
This morning was the first morning of autumn that we had to lower the blinds in the dining area of the cabin during breakfast because the SUN....was finally able to make it through the leafy tree curtain that keeps us hidden all summer long.
Leaves are falling quite rapidly now and ridges are clearly visible - our changing landscape day by day.
I miss the sunrises during the summer months, yet enjoy my morning porch time with my coffee and a bit of phone scrolling with the hummingbirds.
The birds are gone now - flown south for the winter, their feeders washed, dried and put away until next spring arrives.
It's not only the view that is changing rapidly, but the colors, too. I took these photos a mere 2 weeks ago maybe?
Now the job of laying out begins.
There has been a whole lot of repetition in cutting units, sewing units, pressing units, trimming units as needed and assembling the many blocks from the created parts.
A lot of time to keep my mind steady. And I've needed it.
It's been more than a week of staying silent on something really big we are dealing with as a family but there are things I need you to know. Things I want you to understand.
Things I am trying hard to understand myself.
On September 30th I received group text from son Jason to Hubster Dave and myself that he had been admitted to the hospital.
He went to emergency after he couldn't manage the pain of severe headaches any longer.
At first the ER doc was dismissive. But Jason pushed and they agreed to a CT.
The doc came back "Mr. Hunter, I owe you an apology. We found something on your CT. We are admitting you and scheduling you for an MRI."
They kept him overnight. ran a battery of tests.
And then a week of waiting began before he could get in to the neuro surgeon.
There is a large tumor at the back of his cerebellum. We are gutted but hopeful.
We did another video call (There have been many over the past week.) last night. He is scheduled for brain surgery to remove the tumor on October 21st.
There are many issues with trying to keep a business running here, and taking care of him there and dealing with pets and retreaters and so much. So much.
We don't know how long his recovery will take. We can only take this one day at a time. Will his speech be impacted? His ability to walk? To feed himself? Where can we both help him the most?
The other side of things is that he lives in a 300 sq ft studio apartment in Vancouver, Washington. There isn't room for all of us.
So far the plan is for Dave to go out for the surgery where Jason will be in ICU for a few days. When he is ready to be moved I can come out and start helping with his care. Jeff will be helping here while we tag team with Jason.
The studio apartment is a hurdle so we are starting to look for a VRBO that we can do a longer term rental on. We need 2 bedrooms or at least a 1 bedroom with a pull out sofa to make his rehab work.
How long will it be before he can drive? We don't know what it is going to take to get him back to normal, but the upside is that the neuro surgeon is VERY capable and very encouraging that he will be able to fully recover and resume normal life.
Why am I telling you all of this now??
Because mystery season is around the corner and I have been barraged with mystery posts.
Yes - the mystery will still go on as planned but I need you to know that there may be some weeks that some parts are delayed or put off an extra week. This may be a longer term mystery than we've done in the past.
If you need to order specialty rulers from me there may be no way to ship them to you until I get back home. I don't have anyone trained to take over the mail order part of my business...and yet I have ordered supplies already and they are sitting here just waiting for introduction day.
Why do I worry about the quilting end of things? Because it is the one thing I somewhat have some control over where everything else right now is beyond me.
My eldest son has a brain tumor on the other side of the country and I'm finding it hard to function other then putting pieces through the machine...more pieces...just keep sewing.
Jason of course has moments of believing this will all turn out okay, and then he feels the anxiety creeping in. So do we.
Please know that I will do everything I can go keep the mystery running through the holidays even if clue release days may change, or be delayed depending on what is going on.
Some of you may tell me to skip it this year, but honestly - we've been doing this every holiday season for those going through rough times. Maybe this year I need to do it for me - as I can - when we can.
Thank you for your understanding.
Quiltville Quote of the Day -
Pet the fabric, cut the fabric, press the fabric, stitch the fabric, whatever it takes.
Vintage nine patch quilt top found in Virginia.
Thanks for listening -

Hugs to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteLove and prayers to you and yours.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear this news. Sending prayers for Jason and all who love him.
ReplyDeletePrayers, prayers, prayers that everything goes right for Jason. We have been thru this in our extended family so we get it. Do what you need to do for your family and don't rush the mystery, just take your time for you and yours.
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry to hear about your son. Wishing your family all the best. --Sue
ReplyDeleteMore prayers for you and your family
ReplyDeletePrayers for your son, his medical team & family.
ReplyDeleteSending prayers and hugs! Praying all goes well! Prayers for Jason, you, Dave and Jeff and his family as I know he will have to step in to help while you are gone -- it is just what family does.
ReplyDeleteThoughts and prayers to your family. Take care of them and most importantly take care of yourself.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for this news. Please prioritize yourself, and please know that we're all thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteBonnie and family, I am praying for you all. You take all the time you need. We are all behind you and can wait for the mystery. Please let Jason know we are all rooting for him!
ReplyDeleteThinking of you, and all your family.
ReplyDeleteSusan (UK)
will be praying for him
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I always say family first. Your son is your first priority and then making sure that you and Dave are ok. Your quilty family will be ok. We are here for you with our prayers and love and anything we can do from around the world. Much love, hugs and prayers. I will lift Jason up in my daily prayers.
ReplyDeleteWe're all thinking of you and praying for you! Take care of yourself and your loved ones.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts are with you and your family. Take care of yourself in order to take care of Jason.
ReplyDeleteCaryn
Sending hugs and prayers. Do what you need to do to take care of your beautiful son and family! Linda
ReplyDeleteLike the others, I am so very sorry to hear this; my prayers join those of all your other "followers." Peace.
ReplyDeleteBonnie you know you will get so many comments of support, but that's because you are loved by so many.of us. I will be thinking of you and praying for all of you to get through this together. Use the mystery time as a distraction when you need it. And remember to take care of yourself too!
ReplyDeletePraying for Jason and also your family. You do what you have to do. We all will understand. Family is the most important thing right now.
ReplyDeleteHugs and prayers for you all, including the surgeon. So sorry to hear this, Bonnie, but I know things will go as they should. Take care of you!
ReplyDeleteHugs and Prayers to you and your Family.
ReplyDeletePraying for Jason and all of you as you go through this challenge.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry you are going through this. My prayers are with your family that Jason does well through surgery & rehab, & you & Dave can rest easy ad he recovers. Hugs.
ReplyDeletePlease know that all of your followers are praying for your family and we love you Bonnie.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear your news but I will be thinking of you and your son over the next few months and hoping for his full recovery. Take as much time as you need -- the mystery quilt will still be a mystery, no matter how many weeks it takes to publish the parts.
ReplyDeletePrayers for Jason, y'all and his medical team. Family always comes first - please don't fret about the timing of the mystery quilt, timing will give everyone opportunities to catch up, etc. AND, take care of you!!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear of your son's (and all of your) challenges. None of your readers will care if you are late posting or do not blog every day (we will miss you though). Take care of yourself as well as your family!
ReplyDeleteI will also be praying for Jason and for your family. Do whatever you need to do to keep your sanity and health.
ReplyDeleteWill be praying for Jason and all of you as he goes through this surgery and recovery process. May he have a complete and total recovery. 🙏🙏🙏.
ReplyDeleteI am covering all of you in prayer as we experience this journey with you. My heart is hurting for you, Jason and all your family. Please know you are loved and supported by many.💜
ReplyDeleteSending positive thoughts and prayers, as well as virtual hugs to you, Dave, Jason and your extended family. Quilting and creatiity can wait. We will all be here when you everything is better, so please don't worry about any of us.
ReplyDeleteHugs and prayers, we are pulling for Jason, and you all. Do what you think is best for you and your family. We support you unconditionally.
ReplyDeleteI'm in tears for your very-understandable anxiety. Prayers for Jason's surgery and recovery to be complete, and for the logistics of helping him to be smooth.
ReplyDeleteWe are all behind you and your decisions on the mystery quilt. Your family should come first. Know that we all understand and wish you the best.
ReplyDeleteIn my thoughts & prayers … best wishes for a successful operation & healthy outcome Jason. Love & hugs to you all xx
ReplyDeleteSending you and your family prayers and love as you walk through this.
ReplyDeleteI am praying that Jason's surgery goes smoothly and he has a quick and full recovery! And I am praying that you are able to find a great place to stay and that the stress isn't too bad. Sending your whole family hugs and love! You have given so much to all of us, now it is time for us to give back to you...I hope you can feel our love!
ReplyDeleteWishing for you the strength that you and your family will need in the coming weeks, and possibly months. Spending the time with your son is the most important thing, for you and for him. Quilting, in whatever way you can do it, is a solace for a worried mind. Do what you can, when you can. My thoughts will be with you during this time. I'm hopeful that you can find a place where you can be comfortable during his recovery.❣️
ReplyDeletePrayers for you and your family. You are so sweet to worry about letting us down with the mystery. Family first.
ReplyDeleteI will be praying for you all. God bless.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear this. You have a
ReplyDeletePrayers for your son and family. Taking one day at a time will get you through this. Prayers for the surgeon and that your son will recover well. Hugs.
ReplyDeletePraying for Jason, his family, and his doctors.
ReplyDeleteMany prayers for Jason and your family. Please do what you need to do. The mystery is not critical and no time limits. Brenda J.
ReplyDeleteYou have a large community praying for your son and family. It is so hard to be so far away. I am sure the Vancouver community will find a place for you to stay.
ReplyDeleteAs so many have said, we are in all senses with you as you walk this challenging path with your beloved Jason. Family comes first. We will support you and be flexible. Sending love and care from a ship on the Atlantic.
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ReplyDeletePrayers to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteSaid a prayer for Jason so he has a miraculous and speedy recovery!
ReplyDeleteHolding you and family in prayers. Do whatever you need to in order to care for yourself.
ReplyDeleteYou all are there for Jason and we are here for you - thank you for giving us that opportunity.
ReplyDeleteCeci
I am so sorry to hear this news but like all your followers am confident your son's medical team will succeed! Sending prayers and positive vibes to your family.
ReplyDeleteWhat a challenging time for all of you! My thoughts are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteHugs to everyone.
ReplyDeleteSending hugs and hopes for the best outcome possible. Take care of yourselves as well as Jason. The mystery can be mysterious for as long as you need.
ReplyDeletePrayers for a successful surgery and families travels to help and support
ReplyDeletethinking positive thoughts for you and your entire family. stay strong.
ReplyDeletePraying for your family. Family comes first. Quilting can happen later.
ReplyDeletePrayers to and for you all!!
ReplyDeletePraying for all of yall. Family first! Please be kind to yourself as this is rough for any parent, and adding the cross country elevates it. Ignore the trolls. Big hug!
ReplyDeleteMcuh strength and prayers for you and your family. You've got this! Hugs!
ReplyDeleteSUch love your way! Delay the nystery as long as you need. We are getting something free and fun from you. I know it is part of your business model (well done also!!). Everyone, please relax and don't push Bonnie for it. Excited, yes, just don'y be demanding!
ReplyDeletePrayers lifted as you nogiaciate this time in your life. Your son alreadly knows you love him and and are on your way to help. That's half the process. God bless.
ReplyDeletePlease know I am praying for you all. Hugs!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteSending prayers and gentle hugs.
ReplyDeleteSending thoughts & prayers to all. That sounds meaningless perhaps, but all of these messages together are a gigantic hug for you! Feel free to vent, to give us the opportunity to provide comfort & reassurance. We’ll be here as you need us! From Sue Ryckman, Bancroft ON 🇨🇦
ReplyDeletePositive thoughts for you and your family. Stay strong and remember to hug each other.
ReplyDeleteFamily first always. As far as the Mystery, just do what you can when you can. The rest of us will do the same, and under it all we'll be praying for the best possible outcome for Jason.
ReplyDeleteSending lots of prayers for you and your family. Take whatever time you need.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry that Jason is having health issues. I can’t imagine how you must feel not being there. Prayers for peace for Jason, knowledge for his medical team and for God to guide the surgeon’s hands, safe travels, peace, and strength for your family.
ReplyDeleteWishing I could give you a long and supportive hug. Keep yourself hydrated and fed--low blood sugar helps nothing! The Ugly Cry will catch you by surprise--go with it and cry it out. It's a catharsis your body and spirit needs in the moment. I had a specific phrase that helped me through the tough spots, but it's not exactly family-friendly so I won't share it here. I'm sure you'll find your own!
ReplyDeleteLove, concern, and understanding coming from my corner of the world,
Carolyn
Do what you can for your family and yourself. Don’t let your followers add to your stress. There will always be haters and whiners but those who have been your true friends and supporters will continue to have your back. I don’t know of anyone who is truly into quilting who doesn’t have a few UFOs that they can work on if clues are late. Will be praying for all of you and looking forward to hearing good reports and happier times ahead.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear of your sons troubles please kniw I will keep you all in my prayers. Make sure you and Hubster take care if yourselves. Much love and prayers.
ReplyDeleteOh Bonnie, my heart goes out to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteKeeping all of you in prayer.
ReplyDeleteBonnie, sending hugs and prayers to your family during this time.
ReplyDeletePrayers and love and hugs, Remember you are strong than you think.
ReplyDelete❤️🩹. Peace, Love, strength Judy
ReplyDeleteYour family and Jason are in my prayers. Family comes first. You have a very understanding village here in Quiltville so always take care of your family first. ❤️
ReplyDeletePrayers with you and your family. i know first hand the chaos storming through your minds as I've been there, did that. Interesting quote for today regarding the speedbump. The Norwegian word for speed bump is "fartsdump". Their word seems so much more appropriate!
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ReplyDeleteHello Bonnie, I am so sorry to hear your news about your son. I have walked your path and it is a very scary time and stressful. Take care of yourself, one day at a time, and be grateful for the blessings of each day. I will be praying for you and your family as you take this journey. I am very happy the doctor is optimistic...that is very good indeed. Please do what you can and don't worry about us and the mystery...it will be what it will be...sending you hugs, prayers, and hope. Susan
Prayers for a successful surgery and recovery for Jason. And you and your family safe travels during this time. Take care Bonnie. Joanne
ReplyDeleteHugs and prayers for you and your family. Give yourself grace to be late with mystery clues. I understand controlling that you can while dealing with what you can't control.
ReplyDeleteBonnie, sending positive thoughts to your entire family and to the medical staff. I can’t imagine what you all must be going through, especially with Jason so far away. Sending blessings to all of you.
ReplyDeletePrayers, hugs and love to your family; please take good care of yourselves.
ReplyDeleteHugs and prayers
ReplyDeleteHugs and prayers
ReplyDeleteSending hugs and prayers
ReplyDeleteFrom Annette Parsons
Bonnie, first off my prayers are with you and the family. Jason has been placed on the top of my prayer list. I'm praying the the Lord will provide the accomodations that you need for your time needed to help in Jason's rehab. I pray for complete healing and full recovery. As quilters we come together to carry you through this time. We are a hearty bunch and will look forward to whatever time it takes. It's a Mystery after all!! Hugs!!
ReplyDeletePlease know you all are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteTake care of your family and yourself first. Hugs to you. My brother in law had a brain tumor removed 15 years ago. It came back, but chemo has it arrested. He is going strong. So, there is hope.
ReplyDeleteSending prayers your way and thinking only good, positive thoughts!!
ReplyDeleteA few days ago I had the thought that we haven't heard anything about how Jason is doing in a long time. This was about the time that he was getting a diagnosis and treatment plan. I am praying for him, his medical team, and for all of you that he has a complete and speedy recovery.
ReplyDeleteI know that this is a business but we are all quilters that have or had family and they do come first. We will keep your family in prayers and know that God is there with you all. He loves Jason even more than you as parents do. Delayed Mystery clues will be welcomed, when and if you can fit them in. Relax, take a huge breath and give this to God. Love you and your precious family from afar.
ReplyDeletePositive thoughts for you and your family
ReplyDeletePrayers for your son, your family and his health team.
ReplyDeleteAs everyone else is saying - please focus on your son and his recovery and on yours and Dave's health. Praying for all of you.
ReplyDeleteOh Bonnie. I’m so sorry. Surrounding your family with love and light and praying for all of you. Please let us know if there is any way we can support you. We are here if you need us.
ReplyDeleteI am thankful Jeff can handle the retreaters (I am sure they can help him :)) and I am thankful that Dave is retired and not at the beck and call of an employer and I am thankful you are all strong people who can pull together. Sending prayers.
ReplyDeleteOh, Bonnie, so very sorry to hear this! Prayers for you all. My great grandson had a brain tumor removed in January. He was 2. Lots of chemo, etc. but he is home doing fine now. After thought, how about releasing the needed rulers early and getting them out early. Just a thought BUT family first! Love you, hang in there🥰Ramona from Maine!
ReplyDeletePraying for the best possible outcomes and for peace as the medical experts do their magic. Don't worry about us, we are with you and you do what you need to do. Mystery can take as long as it takes it even be paused mid way if needed. This is more important.
ReplyDeleteOh man, I know the angst of the pit in your stomach. I'm so sorry you are having to face this and that your son is having to experience it. The hope for a full recovery is good and worth putting some focus on. Medical challenges can be so hard to face but there is so much to be gained even in the hard part of this good, hard life. My prayers will be often for healing and restoration to Jason and for strength and comfort for all of you. His life has great purpose.
ReplyDeleteOh my. This is the kind of news no mother ever wants to hear. Praying all goes well and for a quick recovery for your son.
ReplyDeletePrayers will be given for Jason that he will have a successful surgery and recovery. Prayers also for your family as you support Jason during this time. May God be with you all and watch over you.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with all of your family during these challenging and unknown time. Family comes first but also take care of you and take a moment to just breathe. Jeff will have the home front covered so you and Dave can be with Jason. You've Got This!! The mystery will happen as it needs to. You have all your followers understanding, love and support.
ReplyDeleteOh, Bonnie-
ReplyDeleteWe will be praying for Jason. I would love to offer our house for you to stay in but it is about an hour away from Vancouver and I haven't lived here long enough myself to know how far away from where you need to be. If you can't find anything suitable at least for you to stay in for a short while let me know. K- lkw2x6-apq@yahoo.com
Family first. Always. Do whatever you need to do.
ReplyDeleteBonnie, your son is in my thoughts & prayers. Please keep us posted, (and we do understand if you need to cancel the mystery quilt this year. Family First.
ReplyDeletePrayers for Jason and your family.
ReplyDeleteWill be thinking of you, Jason and the rest of family during this trying time. We are able to wait out your concerns and focus on the surgery and recovery. The mystery may be a good distraction for you as someone pointed out but not to keep you from being there with him. Bless you all. Johanne
ReplyDeleteBonnie, know that I am keeping you, Jason and Dave & Jeff in my prayers, surrounding you all in love and light, as well as Jason’s medical team. Even in this time, when it is natural for emotions to go up and down, for thoughts to race and then to quiet, may the undercurrent of peace lift you all.
ReplyDeleteYou are all held and sustained. 🙏♥️
Prayers for this family. Sending lots of hugs.
ReplyDeletePlease know that I will be praying for your son Jason and your entire family that the surgery goes well and the recovery is complete.
ReplyDeleteDo what you can when you can. Love to all. Marcia Wright
Oh no! Sending love, hugs, healing thoughts and the white light of protection to you and your family in these trying times.
ReplyDeleteLove and prayers to you and your family. Take care of what needs to be done and don’t worry about the mystery.❤️🙏
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts are with you and the family. Take care of family is always the first thing to do.
ReplyDeleteYou are in my Prayers! Sons who are far away is Hard! I agree the mystery could be more for you than us this year. Be brave mama!
ReplyDeleteWe have been dealing with my husbands brain cancer - astrocytoma- for the last 18 months. Don’t wish this on anyone. But please stay hopeful!! There are so many treatments available and Neuro surgeons are doing amazing things every day. A long stress journey ahead. Please be kind to yourself along the way.
ReplyDeletePrayers for you and your family as you face challenges. I’m so glad that you (and the rest of us facing health and family challenges) have our love of quilting to give us a place for our minds to go when it just can’t make sense of what we are experiencing. Hugs 🫂
ReplyDeleteLook at all the Angels who have appeared in your life!!! Having been through trauma with my own family, you will be amazed at ALL the Angels who will appear throughout this journey. Take care of Jason. Take care of Dave. Take care of Jeff. And please take care of yourself! We are all here uplifting you. You will treasure those Angels the rest of your life. Prayers & hugs being sent your way.
ReplyDeleteHugs and prayers for Jason, you and your family. Prayers for the Doctors, Nurses and other Healthcare workers who are so important in his on-going recovery. God will give you the strength you will need to face these challenges. We all love you, Bonnie, and will be here praying and encouraging you, Dave, and Jason. God Bless
ReplyDeleteLove and light sent to you and yours. I'm sure you are all being covered in healing thoughts and prayers right now. Mine are included.
ReplyDeleteSending best outcome and speedy recovery vibes for your son, and for yourself and husband.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you all and sending prayers
ReplyDeleteBonnie, you have organized these mystery quilts for all of us who have a tough time getting through the holidays. You were there when I needed that help. Now, we will be there for you—in thanks for you being there for us. Please know that this community you have created is lifting you up now. We will be there for you. We will be patient and understanding. We will be keeping you and your family in our hearts.
ReplyDeleteTears as I read this. It's so hard when our kids live so far away but you need to be together now for your own comfort as well as Jason's. Prayers for a successful surgery and complete recovery.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear what you are going through. Sending all good wishes to Jason for his surgery and recovery, and strength to you and the family to support him through this.
ReplyDeleteI am so, so sorry to hear about your son. Know that you have many, many people praying and pulling for your family. Take life one breath at a time and do what needs to be done. You’re amazing and you can do this. Good luck and god bless.
ReplyDeleteFamily First❣️❣️❣️❣️ our thoughts and prayers are with you🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
ReplyDeleteSending thoughts and prayers for miraculous healing, travel mercies, comfort and strength for you all.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry. You will all be in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteOn Tuesday, thoughts of Jason ran through my mind. God works that way. Remember what Tom Selleck said in Blue Bloods... family comes first. Prayers for your family.
ReplyDeleteBonnie, Your family is much more important than the quilting community. Take whatever time you need to take care of your kid. I'll be praying for Jason's recovery and for you & Dave to be able to make all the travel arrangements work and that you can manage a schedule of care for Jason.
ReplyDeleteOh Bonnie, such a hard time to go through. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family, that this all turns out well for Jason ×××
ReplyDeleteI will be lifting you and your family up in my prayers. Carolyn K fromTexas
ReplyDeleteI will be thinking and praying for Jason and all of you. Our son had open heart mitral valve replacement this summer. I so understand your momma’s heart right now. Take care and do what you can as you can. ❤️
ReplyDeletePositive thoughts and prayers to you, Dave, Jason and Jeff. Think about reaching out to the Patient Advocate department or Social Work department to see if they have any housing suggestions available. This is probably not the first time they have encountered this situation and might be able to direct you as opposed to you and Dave trying to do this yourselves on top of everything else that's happening. Best wishes for a successful surgery and a quick and uneventful recovery.
ReplyDeleteAll the best foremost to Jason and of course the whole Hunter family. May everything turn out good and you be a comfort for and support to each other. Ellinor
ReplyDeleteSending prayers and hugs that Jason will have a successful surgery and speedy recovery. Know that your quilting followers are with you in spirit and sending strength and well wishes to you and your family.
ReplyDeletePrayers for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteAdding my prayers for the best possible outcome for Jason and peace of mind for the whole family. Hugs! Kathy
ReplyDeleteBonnie, do what is best for you and your family. We will be here supporting you in anyway needed.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear this. Your family comes first. Praying for a successful surgery and complete healing. God bless you and yours.
ReplyDeleteOh dear. Sending all the best wishes for an excellent outcome.
ReplyDeleteLove to you and your family, family always comes first ❤️
ReplyDeleteBonnie try furnished finder instead of VRBO. Was designed for traveling nurses or digital nomads. Minimum of 1 month stay
ReplyDeletePlease take care, breathe deeply, and hug your family. We all understand that they are the priority.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry. Hugs and prayers for you and your family.
ReplyDeleteMuch love, Bonnie. Take all the time you need, and remember to also take care of yourself.
ReplyDeleteBonnie, we can help support those who need the comfort of this space during the holidays. You go to Jason -- he needs you and your heart needs to be with him, too. May the surgery be successful and that Jason has a successful and sustained recovery.
ReplyDeletePrayers for you and your family. Do what you need to do for family first . we are on your side. Keep calm , God will help you through it.
ReplyDeletePrayers and hugs to you and your family .
ReplyDeletePrayers for your son and family.
ReplyDeleteBonnie, You have given so much to all of us in Quiltville land for so long. We will be sending good thoughts and prayers for you and the family. Whatever you need to do, do it, and we will be here with you.
ReplyDeleteMy family has been down a similar long difficult path with two of our kids. There will be brighter days ahead. Accept every bit of help that doesn’t also drain you (you know what I mean). Let yourself grieve over the loss of the dream of a perfect and easy life for your son. Lean on each other and try to laugh about something every day. We all support you.
ReplyDeleteOh Bonnie. I am so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you and your family. I understand your need to keep things going too. It's what I have done in difficult times. And sew, it's the one really healing thing I have. Hugs to you all and good luck to Jason, hoping for a wonderful outcome. XXX ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
ReplyDeleteBonnie i am so sorry to hear of your son's health challenge. Please let him be your focus and priority, and the rest of us followers will be here sending hope and healing to your family. We will all patiently wait for the mystery to appear when and if, you can get to it. Sending strength to you from your birthday twin!
ReplyDeleteBonnie... I'm sending positive and healing wishes and thoughts to your son and your whole family. ~Marie
ReplyDeleteBonnie, family ALWAYS comes first, especially in situations like this. Take care of you, take care of your son. We will be here. Much love and many prayers.
ReplyDeleteYou don't need me to tell you that you are surrounded by love and support from all of us out here in Quiltville-land. But, I'm telling you anyway. If anyone gives you stress and pressure about the mystery schedule, then I hope their bobbins, run out all the time, their rotary cutter blades are always dull, and none of their fabrics are straight on the grain.
ReplyDeleteI know that in times of stress, sometimes the routine of work and carrying on one day at a time is the very best medicine for our worried hearts. So, I get it why you want to continue as planned. But, please know this: all of us are far more concerned about you, your son, and all who love him, than whether the clues are released "on time".
You, your son, all your family, and Jason's medical team are all in my heart and prayers.
Prayers for all. Rest in His arms, God will see you through.
ReplyDeleteBonnie and family I’m so sorry you carry a heavy cross right now. I’ve been through cancer twice now and it’s not easy in these tough situations and more so with great distance from a loved one. I will pray for Jason and you and hubster for wellness, calm, courage. It’s one day at a time. The quilting world will understand where you focus needs to be - so breathe - and feel the support from around you. Carol McLaughlin - Seattle
ReplyDeleteMy husband grew up there. We still have some friends in town. I’ve reached out to them to see if they know of anything available.
ReplyDeleteBonnie, I am thinking of you, Dave and your family at this difficult time. Please take care of yourself and your family first. That is what matters right now. Do not think twice about the mystery quilt; you have more important matters to deal with. Take all the time you and your family need. Sending you much love and hugs.
ReplyDeleteHugs and prayers to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you and your family,
ReplyDeletethis must be especially hard, thinking of your brother Marc.
Big, big hug.
My prayers are for you, your family, Jason, and Jason’s doctors.
ReplyDeleteHang in there Bonnie. Hugs to you and yours.
ReplyDeletePrayers for Jason and family. I understand very well, my father had a brain tumour too. Hugs from Italy. Paola
ReplyDeletePrayers going out for your son and all of your family 🙏
ReplyDeleteDear Bonnie, I generally don’t post to your site, or any other for that fact. I can’t imagine the pressure you must be under right now. Please know that at this time your family has to come first.
ReplyDeleteI will be praying for your son and your family as you wait for the surgery and afterwards as you assist with his rehabilitation. I am praying for peace and strength for you. For the day of surgery, I am asking God to watch over your son during the surgery, to guide their hands of the surgeons during the operation, to be with the anesthesia team, the scrub nurse and the circulation nurse. I pray that God will be with the recovery room nurses and then that he would be with the ICU nurses, the floor nurses, the physicians, the PT and OT. That he would guide all of them in their decision making. Praise God!
Prayers of peace and healing to you and entire family. God works in mysterious ways and with the prayers and love from all of us,you will get through this trying period
ReplyDeleteI’m so sorry to hear this news… my kids live across the country on each side of US… it is so hard when you want to just be there with them. Take care of Jason and your family… and let your quilt family know how we can help.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear this news. Take care of your son, don't worry about us. If you are late with the mystery clues it will just give those of us who are slower more time. I will be praying for him and for your whole family. Rosanne C.
ReplyDeleteBonnie, just know that I am praying for you and your family to get through this, and I am praying for a speedy recovery. You do whatever you need to do. We are your fans and we love you. The mystery will happen on your terms and I am sure we will all be praying for you and your family throughout the whole process. Have faith, the power of prayer is happening for you all!
ReplyDeleteWe Love and Care about you and please know we are praying for a perfect outcome for Jason and praying for you and your family. You may feel alone at times but we are all there with you in spirit. Much love
ReplyDeletePrayers for Jason and your whole family. Family comes first and that's the most important. We will wait and be patient as you deal with this issue and always keep you in our prayers. The mystery will be something we will make when you have the time and energy. Don't worry about us as you have more important things to worry about. Stay strong.💖
ReplyDeleteBonnie, Prayers are lifted for your son and your family. You are so important to us even if many of us have never met. We understand any breaks you need and your immediate family is such a blessing to you - take care of you and them first!! We consider ourselves your extended family and we support you in whatever decisions you need to make! We love you and hope and pray all will come out great!
ReplyDeletePrayers for peace and calm through this difficult time. In the event Jason is having surgery at OHSU in Portland families can stay at the Rood Family Pavilion at no cost while he is hospitalized. https://www.ohsu.edu/health/rood-family-pavilion
ReplyDeleteSo sorry Bonnie. Sending thoughts and prayers for all your family!!
ReplyDeletePraying for your family and a complete recovery for Jason. 🙏🏼
ReplyDeleteBonnie, prayers 🙏🏻 for Jason and you all. This is one of those times where you have to turn it over and just trust. And in times like this, family ALWAYS comes first! Bless you!❤️❤️
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ReplyDeleteBonnie, we are all praying for Jason, the surgeon, and your entire family. Family first, always! Hugs to you all.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry you're having to do any of this but please slow down and see after surgery how he is doing. Hopefully in the hospital after surgery he will have Physical therapy, Occupational therapy and maybe even speech therapy. They will evaluate him and maybe if he has any deficits (hopefully not) may send him to a rehab facility. Many times when they have surgery on the back of the head where the cerebellum is located balance can be an issue but rehab does wonders. The therapist who see him will send evaluations to the dr and suggest this if he needs it. I know you want to help him but sometimes you can only do one day at a time and sometimes it's even one hour at a time. Prayers for your family.
ReplyDeleteSending healing thoughts to your son, Jason. Lots of positive thoughts and prayers to everyone involved. Darlene
ReplyDeleteHugs & prayers!!❤
ReplyDeleteBest wishes for a very speedy recovery for your son and for all your family - keep sewing Bonnie xxx from Scotland
ReplyDeleteSending prayers for you and your family🙏
ReplyDeleteSending you and your whole family care and hope for as much peace and love during this challenging time. Take care of yourselves and please do only what you need to do with the Mystery - I'm sure most of us have a few UFOs we could work on :) ! Karen
ReplyDeleteBest wishes to you and your family keep sewing Bonnie xxm
ReplyDeleteBonnie, right now, I am praying.
ReplyDeleteLaura H.
Take the time you and your family needs.no apologies needed. Know there are thousands sending positive thoughts your way. Janet Kline
ReplyDeleteBonnie - so sorry to read about your son. Do whatever helps you this holiday season! We definitely understand and I am adding your family to my prayers. - Marty
ReplyDeleteI totally understand wanting to keep on keeping on - yet it is okay to hit pause if you want to hit pause. I am sending all the positive thoughts and all the hugs your way.
ReplyDeletesending prayers for all of you, and hugs and love for you Bonnie
ReplyDeleteSo sorry you are all going through this, its so very stressful. The same thing happened with my husband 4yrs ago, he is fully recovered and monitored annually now. Depending on how they do the surgery, recovery can be up to and around 3mnths, thats the time frame that seems to be common if that helps at all. So glad your son pushed for more tests, my husbands was found by a sheer fluke of luck. It wont be long and this will be behind you all, trust in that and keep stitching when you need. Wishing Jason all the best with the surgery and wishing your whole family the best
ReplyDeleteHugs to you Bonnie! Take care of your so. We will be here when you are ready.
ReplyDeleteIt’s ok if the mystery lasts all year. It will give us a chance to keep up.