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Thursday, November 13, 2025

Rest, Relax, Reconnect, Restore!


Good morning from Sun Lakes, Arizona!

Every year I look forward to visiting my dad before Thanksgiving and it has become a moment of resting up for the holiday season ahead.

Thanksgiving is just a couple of weeks away, with Christmas just a month beyond that and of course our Quiltville Winter Mystery will be kicking off with Part One going live just a few days after I return home.

I'll be home on the 18th.  We go live on the 21st!

I've been gone from home since November 2nd - and the pull to get back to my own spaces and places is strong - yet I am so happy to soak up every minute I have with my dad and extended family here.

Time is fleeting and passes so quickly!

One of the things I love about the 55+ community my dad lives in is the green space around some little lakes (hense the name Sun Lakes) and the ducks and other birds that call this place home.

I love waking up to happy birds chirping where they've mostly gone quiet at home.

See the ducks swimming peacefully in the photo above?


Dad is doing great at 85 ad we took a lovely walk around the lakes, spotting this egret.


Wait!  Where are you going?


Evidently he had enough of my creeping closer upon him to get the best photo shot - I thought it was cool that this photo also caught his reflection in the water below.


Speaking of reflections - one of my favorite things with water photography - there wasn't any breeze disrupting the surface of the water at this point of our walk, and I loved how the tree was perfectly mirrored in the still water.


A difference in pine trees.

This trip has been amazing from the rainforest of the pacific northwest where pines grow sturdy and string in Vancouver, Washington - 

To another species of pine also growing here in Arizona.  So different from each other, and all so beautiful.

What these photos can't provide is the fragrance of freshly mown lawn in the green spaces.  I inhaled huge lungsful trying to commit it to memory as we go into our own winter months ahead at home.


Yesterday also brought the gift of meeting up with my sweet sister-in-law Sharolyn. If you've been reading me for long you'll remember that Sharolyn is the wife of my brother Mark who passed from glioblastoma in 2018.

She picked me up at dad's yesterday afternoon and we enjoyed long conversation over lunch out, and then headed over to Chandler where she needed to do some searching at Sheels.

What? you've never heard of Scheels?


Think of it like the Dicks Sporting Goods version of Bass Pro Shop.  There is even a Ferris wheel inside!


And there might not be enough taxidermy - I'm okay with that - because there is this fascinating aquarium as you walk in remind me to:


Just keep swimming, just keep swimming!

And yes, even though we'd already had lunch - we walked through the mall to the other end and found ourselves enjoying cheesecake out on the patio at the Cheesecake Factory because - how often do we get time to do this anyway?

Let's just say that I opted for a simple salad for dinner because I was too full from all of this indulging!


There has been plenty of TV watching time with dad. Up on deck?  Matlock season 2.  Love Kathy Bates and this series has so many twists and turns.

I began with this motif after finishing the last motif started while with Jason on the flight to Phoenix.


I finished blue/yellow/purple one last night giving me 2 of the 5 I need for the next diagonal row complete -


Number 3 of this row is underway.

With a convalescing son and an elderly father, I'm so glad I brought so much handwork with me.

Today our out and about activities will likely include going to Home Depot for a replacement fluorescent bulb for his kitchen, a grocery store for some sundries.

Perhaps another lovely walk around the green area and the lakes -

And in between it all, more sitting and stitching and making progress.

I'm on the downhill slide of this 2 weeks away and so glad I was able to take this detour to spend time with my dad and family before heading home to holiday chaos.


Quiltville Quote of the Day -

Just keep petting the fabric, and all will be okay!

Have a terrific Thursday, everyone -

 

14 comments:

Kim said...

The best gift you can give? Yourself, your time and your loving presence. Way to go Bonnie, mom, sister in law and daughter, you are spreading the love.

Anonymous said...

If I remember correctly, you are originally from Minnesota. Did you know that Scheels started in Minnesota? I grew up in St. Cloud and that was our town sporting goods store! Carolyn

Anonymous said...

Hi Bonnie, you certainly deserve a break in beautiful Arizona. You arrived just in time before our cooler weather arrives. I’m so happy to hear that Jason’s doing as well as can be expected. Knowing that I know you’ll feel better about going home. Enjoy the rest of your time with your dad. I’m looking forward to starting your new mystery this year. Take care

Anonymous said...

Great pictures today!

Tracey Honig said...

That looks like a fun place to go and get some steps in. I'm glad you are enjoying your trip. The hexies are looking great! Happy Stitching! 🧵

Mary said...

Did you ever get to a Fabric Store in Vancouver. Just wondering. Glad you could take the detour to AZ. Rest up. Winter is coming! I like the green space too. Never too much Cheesecake.

Sherrill said...

You don't see or hear glioblastoma very often as it's pretty rare. My hubby died at 66 in 2012 and I still miss him desperately. Glad you were able to visit your sister-in-law along with your dad and others!! Your dad's place looks really pretty.

Anonymous said...

Bonnie...I remember when you were going through your brother's brain cancer. I did not realize it was Glioblastoma. I am now going through the same brain cancer with my brother, Ron. It's a tough one!!! Prayers for Jason and his recovery!! Carolyn Thompson

Suzanne in Michigan said...

What a great idea to plan your travel home via Arizona. And what a blessing to be able to pack so much family time into this trip. I always love your visits to your father for the stories and Arizona photos! We lived in Phoenix for a decade; your AZ nature pictures stir up good memories for me. Enjoy safe travels home! Looking forward to the mystery kick-off! ~Suzanne

Anonymous said...

We are sure having great AZ weather at the moment. I’m a snowbird in Maricopa, a little south of Sun Lakes. Love sitting outside doing handwork this time of year. Have a great visit and sending well wishes to your son and Dad!

Couch Crafts said...

I love your posts so much, the visits with family and handcrafts and nature photos -- but the absolute highlight of this one for me was finding out that Kathy Bates was on Matlock!! I have some important watching to do. Wishing you safe travels!

Miss Papa said...

I'm glad you're enjoying some lovely family time. **hugs** Jenny

Oleg said...

Make sure you watch Matlock from season one, episode one! It is a real rollercoaster ride for sure.

Anonymous said...

I love it when I see your handwork and recognize fabrics that are still in my stash!!

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